For Berry Street foster carers Shaunagh and Tom, fostering isn’t just about providing a home, it’s about giving children a sense of safety, belonging and hope when they need it most.
“Every child deserves a chance in life, no child chooses to be born, and that’s where we step in,” the couple shared with joy.
The couple’s fulfilling fostering journey began back in 2019, inspired by their community-focused mindset – both already volunteering, they just thought “this is the time to do it.”
“I have been in the field awhile, working as a social worker and in schools as a counsellor … someone spoke to Tom about it once and he was pretty keen to give it a go,” Shaunagh said.
Reflecting on their journey, the pair has welcomed more than 20 children into their home, varying from zero to five years.
With those long-term assignments becoming a bittersweet feeling when they do go back to their biological parents.
“We’ve had three of those long-term ones … probably 15 months to two-and-a-bit years,” Shaunagh said.
“I remember when the boy we had for two-and-a-bit years, he did go back to his parent, that was probably the hardest thing for us because we thought this will probably be forever.
“But it was why we do it, because that’s a big success when they do go.”
Shaunagh and Tom spoke of the commitment that foster care is, challenges they’ve faced with day-to-day care, and how supportive Berry Street has been since the beginning of their journey, providing training to prospective carers.
“We provide the day-to-day care, but we’re part of a much larger team. You aren’t alone,” Tom said.
“Some may think they can’t do this, but with the support and team behind you, you can.”
While the couple recognises there are challenges involved, it becomes almost infectious seeing the impact you have on little one’s lives, and it is the greatest reward.
“Watching them reach their little milestones and develop as little human beings really warms your heart,” the couple gently shared.
“If you’re thinking about becoming a foster carer, just pick up the phone and have a chat with Berry Street.
“Or if you think you’d love to talk to a carer about their experience, we’re happy to do that as well.”
Becoming a foster carer is an opportunity open to anyone over the age of 21 who can provide a secure and nurturing home for children who need it most.
If you’re interested in becoming a foster carer, call 5822 8100 or visit https://www.berrystreet.org.au/ for more information.
– BRYNNE TIMEWELL
